And that is a good thing.
It has been nine years since Kai started kindergarten. Back then we were excited that he would be attending our neighborhood school, but also very anxious about how he would do there. It wasn't long before daily incident reports started to pile up, and he ended up transferring to a public therapeutic school a few months later where has been since.
Now he is back with typical kids, starting his freshman year at our community's high school.
I'm happy to say that it has been an uneventful week.
Every day we ask Kai how the day went, and he gives us a one word answer of "okay" or "good." When we probe, we are sometimes able to get him to talk about what he had for lunch (he likes buying school lunches) or a sentence or two on a couple of his classes.
But what we're most happy about is what he isn't saying.
He hasn't "fired" any of the staff yet. He isn't complaining about how annoying the other students are.
And for a kid who used to go to a middle school with far less than a hundred students and is now attending a high school with more than a couple thousand, that is something.
There's no question that as his first week wrapped up, he seemed much happier than he has been at school in the past few years.
Of course it is still early. He is in the honeymoon period of a new school. There has always been issues that come up, and we don't expect that to magically change now.
But it is nice that Kai got off to a good start.
It gives us hope regarding high school.
There may be some stumbles, but I think Kai realizes that he is stepping into a more mature world, and that he is adapting. I am also hoping he meets some good friends there. Go Kai!
ReplyDeleteI think Kai does understand that he is entering a more mature world. Hopefully he will be able to adapt to that. And yes, it would be great if he could make a friend or two. Hopefully he will be open to that.
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